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Category Archives: Relationships

Messed Up or What? Seriously

I really hope people contact me with ideas and thoughts re this post. You can reach me by responding to this blog post, on facebook IM, email or phone. The “Good-bye Flowers” email I got yesterday and blogged about put me in a tizzy. I’m strong about respecting others choices but I’m human and love …

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The Courageous Wounded Healer

When Our Wounds Cease to Be a Source of Shame, and Become a Source of Healing, We Have Become Wounded Healers – Henri Nouwen When Our Wounds Cease to Become a Source of Shame… …wow! think of this! I am a Wounded Healer. Yes. Because I’ve overcome much that has caused me pain and shame in …

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Making Friends With The Dark Side

All of my therapists, spiritual teachers and healers, and wise friends have told me I must make friends with my dark side in order to fully heal and move on to a happy, healthy, and fulfilling life. Phew, that is so scary and I respond to that differently at different times. My stronger self eagerly …

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Relationship Bewilderment – Empath vs Narcissist?

Anne and Rusty

Article from Elephant Journal – The Toxic Attraction Between and Empath and a Narcissist by Alex Myles: http://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/06/the-toxic-attraction-between-an-empath-a-narcissist/ I am an Empath. I’m beginning to think I might be a Narcissist, too, or at least have some of those traits. Recent past I’ve been attracted to reading all I can find about the relationships between …

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Peace of Mind Being My Greatest Desire

GOSH! Where to start?! I’ve been feeling angry! Now I’m feeling disappointed, hurt, rejected and sad. My depression has been lifting the past several days…and life keeps moving along…things happen…I think I can understand why some people would rather feel angry than hurt – it is a stronger feeling – one of having more control …

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“WHY do I NOT LISTEN?????”

Why do I not listen to myself? to my intuition? to the wise inner voice? WHY??????? Perhaps I do not trust that part of myself enough? Perhaps. I do think it is more of an issue of wanting what I want and disregarding the intuition when it is guiding me away from what I want. …

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God Love Her; Apparently I Can’t

Anne and Rusty

As of this moment I am more out than in of the most romantic/love/intimate relationship I’ve ever known. Be careful what you pray for/ask the Universe for – as apparently one is given what one needs rather than what one wants. Everything that happens in life can become a “teaching” or a spiritual lesson if …

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